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What you hide controls you. What you face transforms you.
Pre-order your copy today and receive over $250 in exclusive bonuses!
The Things We Hide is your guide to uncovering invisible barriers—fears, insecurities, and old wounds—that quietly control how you show up in relationships, leadership, and life. Tyler Dickerhoof combines real-world experience, relatable stories, and practical tools to help you stop hiding, start healing, and lead with honesty and authenticity.
THE THINGS WE HIDE WILL HELP YOU TO:
✓ Recognize the language of fear and express your true self
✓ Tools to turn vulnerability into confidence
✓ Understand the impact of emotional walls on every area of life
✓ Mindset shifts for empowering action
✓ Own your story and lead with honesty—without oversharing or playing the victim
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✓ Bonus 1: Early Access to Manuscript
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Early Access to the Manuscript
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Join me live as we dive into recognizing your deepest insecurity and how to move through it right from the start.
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Insecurity Impact Assessment
Take the self-assessment to discover how insecurity may show up in your leadership or relationships. Are you more prone to Isolation, Insensitivity, Inactivity, or Intensity?
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Get behind-the-scenes access, join an uplifting community, win prizes, and participate in special events!
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Over $250 in exclusive bonuses—FREE with your pre-order!
About the Book
Every one of us faces invisible barriers—fears, insecurities, old wounds—that quietly shape how we show up in our relationships and in our work. In The Things We Hide, Tyler Dickerhoof serves as your guide to uncovering these hidden obstacles and discovering practical pathways to authentic leadership and personal growth.
Drawing from years of community-building and personal development, Tyler vulnerably shares his own journey—how tragedies, setbacks, and honest self-reflection led to breakthroughs. You’ll learn to identify the subtle ways your fears and limiting beliefs drive behavior, build walls, and keep you from meaningful connection. Through insightful stories and actionable frameworks, this book shows you how to dismantle those barriers without shame or guilt, and instead lead with openness, self-awareness, and true strength.
You don’t have to do the work alone. The Things We Hide offers clarity, confidence, and the daily tools you need to grow—so you can show up fully and make a lasting impact on the people around you.
What People are Saying…
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"Tyler has done the hard work that most leaders try to avoid, turning insecurity into clarity, confidence, and compassion. I’ve seen his growth firsthand, have personally experienced the power of his principles, and this book is both his story and his roadmap for anyone ready to do the same."
— Josh Combs, President E3 Construction, Dallas TX
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“In The Things We Hide, Tyler Dickerhoof gives leaders a powerful blueprint for elevating their inner game. With honesty, clarity, and practical wisdom, he shows how confronting our insecurities is the key to raising our performance and sustaining our impact. This book will challenge you, equip you, and help you show up as the leader you’re capable of being.”
— Alan Stein Jr., Author of Raise Your Game, Sustain Your Game, and Next Play
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“The Things We Hide is a masterclass in self-awareness, resilience, and authentic leadership. Tyler Dickerhoof exposes how insecurity shapes our decisions and relationships, and then gives us the tools to break free. If you’re serious about personal growth and leading with integrity, this book belongs on your shelf.”
— Roy Hall Jr, Speaker, Co-Founder & Executive Director of the Driven Foundation
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“I respect Tyler because he leads the same way he lives: with honesty, curiosity, and a deep desire to help people grow.”
— Will Guidara, New York Times Bestselling Author of Unreasonable Hospitality
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“The Things We Hide is a courageous, compassionate guide for anyone who has ever felt like they were too much and not enough at the same time. Tyler doesn’t just tell stories; he hands you tools to understand your insecurity, own it, and finally stop letting it run the show.”
— Claude Silver, Chief Heart Officer, VaynerX
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“Tyler has a gift for making the hard stuff feel human. The Things We Hide is honest, practical, and full of stories that remind us we’re not alone in our insecurities. This book gives you language for what you’ve felt for years and a path to move forward with more clarity and compassion.”
— Chris Schembra, Wall Street Journal Bestselling Author of "Gratitude Through Hard Times"
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“Every leader battles insecurity, but most of us hide it behind walls that limit our effectiveness. In The Things We Hide, Tyler Dickerhoof shows you how to stophiding, embrace authenticity, and lead from a place of genuine strength.”
— Mark Cole, CEO of Maxwell Leadership
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“The Things We Hide is one of the most honest and courageous books I’ve read on insecurity, identity, and the inner battles that quietly shape our leadership and our lives. Tyler Dickerhoof doesn’t write from theory—he writes from scars, stories, and deep self-awareness. Page after page, he invites the reader to stop hiding, stop performing, and start healing. If you’re ready to lead with greater clarity, emotional strength, and authenticity, this book will challenge you, confront you, and ultimately change you. This is essential reading for any leader who wants to break free from what’s been holding them back and step fully into who they were created to be.”
— Chris Robinson, USA Today Bestselling Author | Executive Vice President, Maxwell Leadership
Message from the Author
MEET THE AUTHOR
TYLER
DICKERHOOF
Tyler is a leadership mentor, entrepreneur, and host of Impact Driven Leader community. With over 25 years of experience and more than $700 million in generated business sales, he understands the real pressures leaders face. A Cornell University graduate, Tyler once defined his worth by achievement, often at the expense of relationships. Through personal development and entrepreneurship, he confronted the hidden insecurities shaping his leadership. Today, he helps leaders slow down, tell the truth about what’s really driving them, and lead with greater authenticity, clarity, and impact.
